最近总在思考:许多环保主义者,是不是想太多了呢。于是我借题发挥,写上几句:
忧心忡忡的环保主义者,花开的时候,你叹气了,花落的时候,你叹气了;钢铁战胜了森林,你哭了两哭,全球变暖了一度,你坐不住了。我知道你是好心,只不过,你是太着急了。




陶瓷作品,来自www.diploo.pl
Read More我们先有了生活,然后夸张成为影像,影像成为漫画,漫画模仿影像,影像再模仿漫画⋯⋯视觉就是这样被符号化,符号化本身也成为了被模仿的对象⋯⋯真纠结阿!这些摄影作品,来自Scott Garrison,他极力表现一种漫画式的场景。这些符号化元素,爱看漫画的你应该都不陌生吧。

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Leonard Cohen,深沉的老诗人,民谣歌手,我的播放器里总有他的歌,我的书桌上总有他的书。那天在做饭,突然想起了他的《致一位年轻尼姑》:我们挽着手臂,走过细节之桥,时光的安排,多么甜蜜:轮到你切菜,轮到我做饭。轮到你为爱而死,论到我死而复生。对我来说,也许诗歌就是这样的一种东西,让我在切菜一瞬想到许多物与事件的一千张面孔,得到观照的意义。



1.一次只做一件事
2.知道问题在哪里
3.学会倾听
4.学会提问
5.区分意义与形式
6.接受无常
7.能认错
8.简化表达
9.平和
10.微笑
这些言语,被瑞士设计师 Fischli & Weiss印在办公楼外,恩,当我们有办公楼的时候也要印一个。

我的数学不好。一直以来,我以为数学和我不会有太多的交集,直到我看到美妙的分形艺术,发现我无法写出这样美的函数。
混乱是美,秩序是美,规律是美。一切无穷细分和无穷扩张的美,全部卡在某一个门槛上。因为没有认真看过花朵的样子,不知道构成,数学家写不出美的分形;因为不懂数学,我也无法用公式画出花朵的样子。美在某一种教育下,被分割成遥不可及的。
26岁的意大利女艺术家Chiarahttp://lindelokse.deviantart.com/ ,用Apophysis与Photoshop为我们带来这样美丽的分形。如果为这篇文章许一个愿望,我希望在少年时期,我多学一些数学。






歌词:
〖暮霭渐沉染西空〗
〖流光淡弋破层云〗
〖斜阳骤雨初歇霁〗
〖蓦觉盛夏芳清怡〗
〖树影隙光点斑驳〗
〖往日浮现细闻听〗
〖似曾相识故人颜〗
〖凉夏夕空馨香溢〗
〖似锦韶华流水逝〗
〖寸心浅笑复低吟〗
〖盛夏光年长相忆〗
〖纷至沓来万家灯〗
〖络绎不绝夏夜祭〗
〖檐下风铃轻声语〗
〖心身悸动任游弋〗
〖喧嚣鸣蝉知时节〗
〖一人独步茂林地〗
〖遥想当年旧人颜〗
〖微微清风耳畔拂〗
〖浅浅低吟轻声诉〗
〖明知往昔不可追〗
〖明知去者不可留〗
〖我心依然亦如故〗
〖为人无志难成器〗
〖为人无学难长进〗
〖故亡祖父谆善教〗
〖金玉良言心间记〗
〖凉夏夕空馨香溢〗
〖似锦韶华流水逝〗
〖我心依然亦如故〗
〖馥丽浸染暖人心〗
〖盛夏光年长相忆〗
翻译 By:logos
Read More与自然亲近的人,最美。
因为自然给予我们无穷变化和色彩。
因为自然给我们选择。
让我们成为花的孩子。






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化妆 ANASTASIA DURASOVA
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黄舒骏的《未央歌》里面说的故事,我没有看过。但是在那么年纪,我反复地听这首歌,反复听着,别人说的别人的故事。少年的故事,你总能听的懂。今天在微博上@zhuangshi71 同学提起来,回忆重现。我们的少年未央,依然如此多情。
当大余吻上宝笙的嘴边
我总算了了一桩心愿
只是不知道小童的那个秘密
是否就是蔺燕梅
在未央歌的催眠声中
多少人为他魂萦梦牵
在寂寞苦闷的十七岁
经营一点小小的甜美
我的朋友我的同学
在不同时候留下同样的眼泪
心中想着朋友和书中人物间
究竟是谁比较象谁
那朵校园中的玫瑰
是否可能种在我眼前
在平凡无奇的人世间
给我一点温柔和喜悦
你知道你在寻找你的蔺燕梅
你知道你在寻找你的童孝贤
你知道你在你知道你在
你知道你在寻找一种永远
经过这几年的岁月
我几乎忘了曾有这样的甜美
突然听说小童在台湾的消息
我想起从前的一切
为何现在同样的诗篇
已无法触动我的心弦
也许那些永恒的女子
永远不会出现在我面前
我的弟弟我的妹妹
你们又再度流下同样的眼泪
喔`么美好的感觉
告诉我你心爱的人是谁
多么盼望你们又一天
真的见到你的蔺燕梅
伍宝笙和童孝贤
为我唱完未央的心愿
你知道你在寻找你的蔺燕梅
你知道你在寻找你的童孝贤
你知道你在你知道你在
你知道你在寻找一种永远
你知道你在寻找你的蔺燕梅
你知道你在寻找你的童孝贤
你知道你在你知道你在
你知道你在寻找一种永远

生活其实就是平衡的艺术。多梦些,少抱怨;多听些,少说些;多爱些,少强辩;多希望,少恐惧,多放松,别担心;多些信念,少些怀疑;多玩耍,少工作。这些多多少少,你觉得呢?
Read More金钱是世界上最神奇的东西。
它是最虚无,又是最真实的,是一切罪恶的源泉——有什么不是罪恶的源泉吗?也是许多人信奉的理念,信奉他们的人总是被人误解。
你不能为金钱而活着,但是也不必鄙视它,因为财富是人类文明积累的具体形式。新奥尔良的艺术家丹·塔格从金钱中体会到这些真理,然后通过超过100次的折叠,把这些句子呈现出来。



乔布斯在斯坦福大学的演讲
今天,有荣幸来到各位从世界上最好的学校之一毕业的毕业典礼上。我从来没从大学毕业。说实话,这是我离大学毕业最近的一刻。今天,我只说三个故事,不谈大道理,三个故事就好。
第一个故事,是关于人生中的点点滴滴怎么串连在一起。
我在里德学院(Reed college)待了六个月就办休学了。到我退学前,一共休学了十八个月。那么,我为什么休学?
这得从我出生前讲起。我的亲生母亲当时是个研究生,年轻未婚妈妈,她决定让别人收养我。她强烈觉得应该让有大学毕业的人收养我,所以我出生时,她就准备让我被一对律师夫妇收养。但是这对夫妻到了最后一刻反悔了,他们想收养女孩。所以在等待收养名单上的一对夫妻,我的养父母,在一天半夜里接到一通电话,问他们「有一名意外出生的男孩,你们要认养他吗?」而他们的回答是「当然要」。后来,我的生母发现,我现在的妈妈从来没有大学毕业,我现在的爸爸则连高中毕业也没有。她拒绝在认养文件上做最后签字。直到几个月后,我的养父母同意将来一定会让我上大学,她才软化态度。
十七年后,我上大学了。但是当时我无知选了一所学费几乎跟史丹佛一样贵的大学,我那工人阶级的父母所有积蓄都花在我的学费上。六个月后,我看不出念这个书的价值何在。那时候,我不知道这辈子要干什么,也不知道念大学能对我有什么帮助,而且我为了念这个书,花光了我父母这辈子的所有积蓄,所以我决定休学,相信船到桥头自然直。当时这个决定看来相当可怕,可是现在看来,那是我这辈子做过最好的决定之一。当我休学之后,我再也不用上我没兴趣的必修课,把时间拿去听那些我有兴趣的课。
这一点也不浪漫。我没有宿舍,所以我睡在友人家里的地板上,靠着回收可乐空罐的五先令退费买吃的,每个星期天晚上得走七里的路绕过大半个镇去印度教的 Hare Krishna神庙吃顿好料。我喜欢Hare Krishna神庙的好料。追寻我的好奇与直觉,我所驻足的大部分事物,后来看来都成了无价之宝。举例来说:
当时里德学院有着大概是全国最好的书法指导。在整个校园内的每一张海报上,每个抽屉的标签上,都是美丽的手写字。因为我休学了,可以不照正常选课程序来,所以我跑去学书法。我学了serif与san serif字体,学到在不同字母组合间变更字间距,学到活版印刷伟大的地方。书法的美好、历史感与艺术感是科学所无法捕捉的,我觉得那很迷人。
我没预期过学的这些东西能在我生活中起些什么实际作用,不过十年后,当我在设计第一台麦金塔时,我想起了当时所学的东西,所以把这些东西都设计进了麦金塔里,这是第一台能印刷出漂亮东西的计算机。如果我没沉溺于那样一门课里,麦金塔可能就不会有多重字体跟变间距字体了。又因为Windows抄袭了麦金塔的使用方式,如果当年我没这样做,大概世界上所有的个人计算机都不会有这些东西,印不出现在我们看到的漂亮的字来了。当然,当我还在大学里时,不可能把这些点点滴滴预先串在一起,但是这在十年后回顾,就显得非常清楚。
我再说一次,你不能预先把点点滴滴串在一起;唯有未来回顾时,你才会明白那些点点滴滴是如何串在一起的。所以你得相信,你现在所体会的东西,将来多少会连接在一块。你得信任某个东西,直觉也好,命运也好,生命也好,或者业力。这种作法从来没让我失望,也让我的人生整个不同起来。
我的第二个故事,有关爱与失去。
我好运-年轻时就发现自己爱做什么事。我二十岁时,跟Steve Wozniak在我爸妈的车库里开始了苹果计算机的事业。我们拼命工作,苹果计算机在十年间从一间车库里的两个小伙子扩展成了一家员工超过四千人、市价二十亿美金的公司,在那之前一年推出了我们最棒的作品-麦金塔,而我才刚迈入人生的第三十个年头,然后被炒鱿鱼。要怎么让自己创办的公司炒自己鱿鱼?好吧,当苹果计算机成长后,我请了一个我以为他在经营公司上很有才干的家伙来,他在头几年也确实干得不错。可是我们对未来的愿景不同,最后只好分道扬镳,董事会站在他那边,炒了我鱿鱼,公开把我请了出去。曾经是我整个成年生活重心的东西不见了,令我不知所措。
有几个月,我实在不知道要干什么好。我觉得我令企业界的前辈们失望-我把他们交给我的接力棒弄丢了。我见了创办HP的David Packard跟创办Intel的Bob Noyce,跟他们说我很抱歉把事情搞砸得很厉害了。我成了公众的非常负面示范,我甚至想要离开硅谷。但是渐渐的,我发现,我还是喜爱着我做过的事情,在苹果的日子经历的事件没有丝毫改变我爱做的事。我被否定了,可是我还是爱做那些事情,所以我决定从头来过。
当时我没发现,但是现在看来,被苹果计算机开除,是我所经历过最好的事情。成功的沉重被从头来过的轻松所取代,每件事情都不那么确定,让我自由进入这辈子最有创意的年代。
接下来五年,我开了一家叫做NeXT的公司,又开一家叫做Pixar的公司,也跟后来的老婆谈起了恋爱。Pixar接着制作了世界上第一部全计算机动画电影,玩具总动员,现在是世界上最成功的动画制作公司。然后,苹果计算机买下了NeXT,我回到了苹果,我们在NeXT发展的技术成了苹果计算机后来复兴的核心。我也有了个美妙的家庭。
我很确定,如果当年苹果计算机没开除我,就不会发生这些事情。这帖药很苦口,可是我想苹果计算机这个病人需要这帖药。有时候,人生会用砖头打你的头。不要丧失信心。我确信,我爱我所做的事情,这就是这些年来让我继续走下去的唯一理由。你得找出你爱的,工作上是如此,对情人也是如此。你的工作将填满你的一大块人生,唯一获得真正满足的方法就是做你相信是伟大的工作,而唯一做伟大工作的方法是爱你所做的事。如果你还没找到这些事,继续找,别停顿。尽你全心全力,你知道你一定会找到。而且,如同任何伟大的关系,事情只会随着时间愈来愈好。所以,在你找到之前,继续找,别停顿。
我的第三个故事,关于死亡。
当我十七岁时,我读到一则格言,好像是「把每一天都当成生命中的最后一天,你就会轻松自在。」这对我影响深远,在过去33年里,我每天早上都会照镜子,自问:「如果今天是此生最后一日,我今天要干些什么?」每当我连续太多天都得到一个「没事做」的答案时,我就知道我必须有所变革了。
提醒自己快死了,是我在人生中下重大决定时,所用过最重要的工具。因为几乎每件事-所有外界期望、所有名誉、所有对困窘或失败的恐惧-在面对死亡时,都消失了,只有最重要的东西才会留下。提醒自己快死了,是我所知避免掉入自己有东西要失去了的陷阱里最好的方法。人生不带来,死不带去,没什么道理不顺心而为。
一年前,我被诊断出癌症。我在早上七点半作断层扫描,在胰脏清楚出现一个肿瘤,我连胰脏是什么都不知道。医生告诉我,那几乎可以确定是一种不治之症,我大概活不到三到六个月了。医生建议我回家,好好跟亲人们聚一聚,这是医生对临终病人的标准建议。那代表你得试着在几个月内把你将来十年想跟小孩讲的话讲完。那代表你得把每件事情搞定,家人才会尽量轻松。那代表你得跟人说再见了。
我整天想着那个诊断结果,那天晚上做了一次切片,从喉咙伸入一个内视镜,从胃进肠子,插了根针进胰脏,取了一些肿瘤细胞出来。我打了镇静剂,不醒人事,但是我老婆在场。她后来跟我说,当医生们用显微镜看过那些细胞后,他们都哭了,因为那是非常少见的一种胰脏癌,可以用手术治好。所以我接受了手术,康复了。
这是我最接近死亡的时候,我希望那会继续是未来几十年内最接近的一次。经历此事后,我可以比之前死亡只是抽象概念时要更肯定告诉你们下面这些:
没有人想死。即使那些想上天堂的人,也想活着上天堂。但是死亡是我们共有的目的地,没有人逃得过。这是注定的,因为死亡简直就是生命中最棒的发明,是生命变化的媒介,送走老人们,给新生代留下空间。现在你们是新生代,但是不久的将来,你们也会逐渐变老,被送出人生的舞台。抱歉讲得这么戏剧化,但是这是真的。
你们的时间有限,所以不要浪费时间活在别人的生活里。不要被信条所惑-盲从信条就是活在别人思考结果里。不要让别人的意见淹没了你内在的心声。最重要的,拥有跟随内心与直觉的勇气,你的内心与直觉多少已经知道你真正想要成为什么样的人。任何其它事物都是次要的。
在我年轻时,有本神奇的杂志叫做Whole Earth Catalog,当年我们很迷这本杂志。那是一位住在离这不远的Menlo Park的Stewart Brand发行的,他把杂志办得很有诗意。那是1960年代末期,个人计算机跟桌上出版还没发明,所有内容都是打字机、剪刀跟拍立得相机做出来的。杂志内容有点像印在纸上的Google,在Google出现之前35年就有了:理想化,充满新奇工具与神奇的注记。
Stewart跟他的出版团队出了好几期Whole Earth Catalog,然后出了停刊号。当时是1970年代中期,我正是你们现在这个年龄的时候。在停刊号的封底,有张早晨乡间小路的照片,那种你去爬山时会经过的乡间小路。在照片下有行小字:
求知若饥,虚心若愚。
那是他们亲笔写下的告别讯息,我总是以此自许。当你们毕业,展开新生活,我也以此期许你们。
求知若饥,虚心若愚。
非常谢谢大家。
乔布斯斯坦福大学演讲英文原文:
Stanford Report, June 14, 2005
‘You’ve got to find what you love,’ Jobs says
This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.
I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.
The first story is about connecting the dots.
I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5?? deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
My second story is about love and loss.
I was lucky – I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation – the Macintosh – a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me – I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.
My third story is about death.
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.
This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960’s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
Thank you all very much.
Read More空洞的鼓励以及无用的所谓换位思考的体谅,根本无法驱散一个人的焦虑,也无法推动他去实践心中的想法。所有的犹豫和担忧都是对自己的信心不足,来看这篇译文,从心理层面剖析信心缺乏的原因,找到病症,愿下周一的你能够真正充满信心的去战斗!
原文来自译言:http://article.yeeyan.org/view/245895/214135
你为什么没有信心
Nabil Gulamani,2011年5月31日,1条评论
如果我告诉你,信心全在你的头脑中,你会如何;如果我告诉你,你所感知的所有不安全感全在你的头脑中(所有),你会如何。。。。。。我是认真的。你想了解些什么吗?我在高中和大学早期几乎无任何自信,并且我认为我是天生如此。我就是个普通人,找出一个站不住脚的理由,并且告诉我自己这就是我,我就是这样的。但是接着因为在生活的各个领域毫无自信,我一度感到很难受(导致失眠)。 我憎恨这一点,因为我感觉自己对生活毫无激情,根本没有任何能量。
我怀着研究自己身体和心灵深处的使命,结果发现了会令你们所有人一惊的东西!!!你们的自信水平取决于你们感知世界的方式。我们大部分人深陷匮乏的心态;我们有着许多固守的限制性信念,所有这些限制性信念在我们的孩提时代就植入了我们的内心。当我们成年后,我们坚持特定的路线,以一种单一的方式看世界。
当我们以这样一种方式看世界:我们看到许多机会围绕在我们周围,因此我们立即跳进去,并且利用所有在那里的一切时,即拥有了富足的心态。一旦你处于富足的心态,你的自尊心就会上升,因为你清楚你拥有很多。但是,首先,你必须让你的身体和心灵处于富足心态的框架内。那么,该怎么做呢?我解释一下。。。这与你的意识水平有关(你从内心觉得你必须马上改变!!)
首先,你需要非常留意你的意识水平。问自己并观察你是否生活在害怕和焦虑之中,或者你是否每天感到平静和乐观。我们大部分人不会花时间去留意我们内心的感受,于是结果就变成我们抱怨“生活如何如何”。当你意识到你每天的感受,你会清楚地了解你的感情立场,就会因此知道需要在哪些阶段加以完善。我们大部分人每天处于忧虑之中,不知如何挣脱束缚。悲哀的是,正是这种忧虑毁灭了你的自尊。当你生活在忧虑之中时,你对自己会感到不自信,还会建立起一种匮乏的心态,这种心态会歪曲你对有能力完成的事情的见解。
要获得牢固的信心,感觉如同超级明星般,需要调整你的意识水平。我指的是,你需要从内心改变你感知自己的方式。当你能够调整和控制你的内心世界,任何事都可能从外部去完成或改进。立刻开始,感激你所拥有的一切,无论你生活中所处的环境如何。我们都拥有值得感激的东西,但我们没有认识到这一点。当你能够对你所拥有的一切怀有感激之心,你会感觉体内能量一阵快速涌流,这种感觉好极了。其他人会注意到你体内的能量,也会对你作出积极反应。
那么,你可能会疑惑,需要做些什么来驱除你的忧虑,进入一种感受生活中的喜悦、平和与幸福的状态。。。
你需要立刻开始每天走出自己的舒适区,尝试有可能带来机遇的新事物。你会发现一旦走出舒适区,并尝试新事物,你的自信心将会到达一个全新的高度。你所遇见的某个人会极大程度地影响你,或你可能会获得一个商业机遇,将你带到从未想像过的某个地方。你的意识水平会突然发生变化:从害怕与焦虑的状态中走出,上升为感到更幸福和有成就感。突然之间,你会发现体内不再有空虚和愤怒,因为你在不断尝试引领你到达新地方或/和新机遇的新活动。
你还需要着手调整外部环境,从而令自己自我感觉更为良好。密切关注你身边的人和事;在你周围环境的基础上,形成有关你自身的实相。你需要开始经常性地把身体和心灵整天置于一种资源状态。如果你让悲观的人令你情绪低落,你会感觉像个混蛋,这将会影响你的自尊水平,开始根据其他人对你的谈论和想法形成有关你自身的实相。同样,如果你的屋子里满是垃圾食品,你需要立即清除。我提到的所有这些是为了让你们警惕和明白。你所处的环境将决定你如何感受自己,悲哀的是,我们大部分人认为我们天生是不自信的(“全是基因问题。”胡说)。事实是,你身体的能量水平在极大程度上受你周围所有环境的影响。立马调整你周围的环境!!
这就是我今天要说的全部。。。希望你们所有人有一个神奇的周末:)
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